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- Wed Jul 21, 2010 10:19 am
- Forum: Ladies
- Topic: How guys should behave when unexpectedly approaching a lady
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Re: How guys should behave when unexpectedly approaching a l
I have gotten off the elevator a time or two when by myself and a man got on. Not that I found them particularly disturbing, just being cautious...
- Tue Jul 20, 2010 3:18 pm
- Forum: Ladies
- Topic: How guys should behave when unexpectedly approaching a lady
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Re: How guys should behave when unexpectedly approaching a l
This is kind of an "edge of the blade" issue. If you are obviously trying to make it seem that you are NOT paying attention to me, I will be concerned. If you are a little too friendly and seem to be obviously trying to put me at ease, I will also be concerned. I think the "smile and nod" with a "hello" is plenty. I was pumping gas in my vehicle one time and a truck full of rowdy teenage boys pulled up and a couple of them go out and headed my way. I backed up and casually put my hand on my "hip" , just in case. Turns out they were on a school scavenger hunt and needed a pic of them pumping someones gasoline. I said ok, but I backed further up and around the truck from them and kept my "hand on hip" pose until they left. Harmless, but you never know. Another time, before I got my CHL, I had a new baby, a year and a half toddler, and an 8yr old in the car and this white panel van pulls up with these very obviously on something guys, looked like meth-heads. "Hey lady, wanna buy a stereo? Come check them out in the back of the van..." Yeah, right! I peeled out and called 911 while I was at it. That was one of the reasons I decided to pursue my CHL. What could I have done to protect my kids if the bad guys had a gun or grabbed me? Nothing.