Hoi Polloi wrote:I imagine there were plenty of students who felt terrorized after the shooting who had no greater connection than being students of the same university. He was a student of the university and his girlfriend of 6 months was tragically killed in the worst mass shooting in US history. There are plenty of things to validly criticize, but the fact that he feels victimized is not one I think charity or compassion or even logic would allow on that list. He did lose quite a lot.
I understand where you are coming from. My wife works for the public school system, as the administrator of a special program. She comes into contact with parents of all types. There was one that she told me about that was extremely disturbing. My wife called the parent "crazy", and she doesn't throw that label around lightly. This parent, it sounds like, is the type of person that concealed carry is meant to defend one's self from.
I often wonder how I would feel if that parent did have a gun and the unthinkable happened.
We have a lot invested in each other--10 years, 2 kids, house--our lives, basically. A lot of emotional investment in each other.
I would consider myself and my family victims if something happened, because of the love and the commitment, and because two little boys would not have a mother the adored, and I would have lost the love of my life. That would have been life-changing.
But after just 6 months of she and I dating, I don't know if my feelings about it would have been that strong.