I must admit that I saw your post earlier this evening and I didn't know how to put into words my emotions or a suitable response... and I still don't. I am very sorry for your loss and through what I cannot being to imagine your family is going. You and yours will be in our prayers, too.
"We have four boxes with which to defend our freedom: the soap box, the ballot box, the jury box, and the cartridge box." - L. McDonald