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MeMelYup
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Re: New (soon to be holder)

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Middle Age Russ wrote:Welcome to the forum, Cory.

Relationships with other folks introduce dynamics that can't easily be weighed to offer sage advice on an internet forum. As such, I hesitate to advise about how to handle your new status with your friends and girlfriend. As Charles pointed out discretion is a very good thing (concealed is concealed, after all). One thing to consider, though, is your girlfriend's feelings if she finds out after the fact that you have been carrying. She could consider it lying by omission and trust in the relationship might take a serious hit.

On the trust side, others have suggested training if you are not already pretty competent with your handgun. Training is beneficial to your own abilities, but it can also instill trust in your SO regarding your decision making and your competency. Invite your girlfriend to train with you if at all possible. Often, those closest to us learn better from a third party than they do when we teach.
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