Abraham wrote:There's something not mentioned - hunting and killing is gory and stinky. Skinning and gutting can be a shocking experience for someone who's not been around it.
I expect that, completely, and as I said before, wouldn't want to avoid it. I don't think I'd have any trouble, but it may be something you just don't know until you do it.
Plus, you may (or not) feel bad after killing an animal that was just trying to make a living, if you will.
I've been a hunter for years and still sometimes feel a bit of sadness after I've killed a deer or a hog.
Fear of doing it without knowing what I was doing - that's where any apparent ambivalence is coming from. Again, might be something you find out by doing - but if I knew the meat was going to get eaten, etc, I think I'd be OK - this isn't something I've not thought about.
I know I'd feel bad if I were killing something for no purpose, but if I didn't think I could kill an animal I wouldn't have posted. I'm not sure how to explain this better - we have feral cats that run around the neighborhood - we trapped 'em, had them fixed, released them (the mom had a litter, we caught the kittens and the mom too) - they take down squirrels and birds and sometimes leave pieces, etc in the back yard, and will sometimes be back there eating what they've taken, and it gets messy - not as messy as I'd expect dressing a deer to be, but messy nonetheless. My wife gets grossed out - I just see it as nature being nature, and I don't get sad for the cow when I have a nice steak, and the pictures here in the forum haven't bothered me. (They are just pictures, of course, so IRL might be different, but I don't think I'd have a problem).
The biggest thing I'm worried about is going out and screwing it up somehow (hurt an animal but not kill it, killing an animal and not knowing what to do then, that kind of thing - if I decide not to, it will be because I don't feel like I know enough, or I'm not good enough with the rifle yet, something along those lines. I want to learn, it just seems different than when, for instance, I decided to learn to pick locks - there'd have been no harm done if when I ordered some lock cylinders off ebay, I'd failed to pick them. Hunting just seems different in that regard, if I go out and hunt and screw something up, like taking a shot at an animal and hitting it but *not* killing it, without knowing what to do then - that would be terrible. I've learned how to do a lot of things just by going out and snarfing in all the info I could, and then actually doing it - but hunting, I'd want someone there to figuratively smack me in the head if I was about to do something dumb. If that makes sense).
If you're not completely sure this is something you want to get into, perhaps you could get invited on a deer or hog hunt and not shoot, but go just to get a feel for what it's about.
Much like an earlier poster suggested, offer to cook or do whatever labor is necessary to get an invite.
I've definitely been thinking about that, too, and I appreciate your comments.