Under the circumstances described, it may have been worthwhile to consider apologizing for the unintentional flash and identifying oneself as a CHL holder to alleviate the clerk's justifiable concern.
Excaliber, I am smart enough to have considered doing this at the time. However, I thought there was a small chance he didnt actually see it. I did not want to take the risk of making him aware of my pistol if he didnt really make eye contact with it. He was looking kinda at my face at the same time. I felt it best not to discuss it by drawing attention to it.
From a situational awareness perspective, if one's first clue that there are multiple police vehicles and officers present and focused on you is a bright light and a pistol next to one's head, it might be a good time to review how one maintains awareness of his surroundings, particularly in known insecure locations.
I do take a little offense to this statement as you dont know how I was sitting, where my vehicle was or how silent the officers were when they arrived. For the record, I was pulled into a parking space with 2 cars on each side of me. The police officers left their cruiser headlights off, no sirens of course. They crept up on me quietly from behind. One second they were not there, the next second I see their flashlights and pistols. I am
always very aware of my surroundings. Its easy for people to judge another individuals situation when they were not even there. Its easy to say what you "would have done" or what you "normally do".
From a strategic standpoint, if a neighborhood is known to be dicey, eating fast food in one's car in a convenience store parking lot with doors unlocked is an invitation to robbery or carjacking.
I do agree with that, but thats why I am strapped.
I also agree with The Annoyed Man - 12 o'clock is a common stickup artist's carry position and an uncommon choice for lawfully armed folks, except in some special circumstances. Four o'clock carry would have prevented the entire situation in this case, and would give the OP a far better chance of being able to continue to enjoy his "wedding tackle" in its original and fully functional condition for years to come.
I carry in that particular positon with that pistol only. I carry in other positions depending on what I am wearing and what pistol I have. I feel like I can carry in whatever position I choose. I dont care if gangbangers or stickup artists carry that way. I could care less what people do in the movies. I do what makes me feel comfortable and safe. Looking back on it I wouldnt change anything about the whole situation. Being curteous to the officers is important to me because I know a few FWPD. They are friends. I know some said they would not have been so nice about it. The officers were being very cordial after they found out I was a CHL, so why not return the favor?