Wife Has Come Around
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Wife Has Come Around
My wife is a self proclaimed liberal Democrat. I know, I married her anyway - you can't control the heart with the head.
Anyway, we were discussing the proposed gun bans and the Connecticut shooting last night over dinner. She said: "I can see both sides of the argument, but I've come to the conclusion that a person who is intent on committing acts like that will do so whether guns are banned or not. People need guns to defend themselves against people who would do these things."
She cited the fact that the guns used didn't belong to the shooter - he killed his mother to obtain them. If his mother didn't have them, he may have killed someone down the street to get theirs. He could have used a hammer or a baseball bat. She said he would have found whatever instrument he could find to do this, and anyone who would want to do something like this would do the same.
This is someone who is from Chicago and lived several years in New York City before moving to Texas.
I guess my conservative views are starting to rub off on her! I knew they would - prog emotional views can rarely stand up to logic.
As a side note, she also said it's still strange for her, even after being in Texas for two years, saying (and hearing) "Merry Christmas" instead of "Happy Holidays".
Anyway, we were discussing the proposed gun bans and the Connecticut shooting last night over dinner. She said: "I can see both sides of the argument, but I've come to the conclusion that a person who is intent on committing acts like that will do so whether guns are banned or not. People need guns to defend themselves against people who would do these things."
She cited the fact that the guns used didn't belong to the shooter - he killed his mother to obtain them. If his mother didn't have them, he may have killed someone down the street to get theirs. He could have used a hammer or a baseball bat. She said he would have found whatever instrument he could find to do this, and anyone who would want to do something like this would do the same.
This is someone who is from Chicago and lived several years in New York City before moving to Texas.
I guess my conservative views are starting to rub off on her! I knew they would - prog emotional views can rarely stand up to logic.
As a side note, she also said it's still strange for her, even after being in Texas for two years, saying (and hearing) "Merry Christmas" instead of "Happy Holidays".
“I’m all in favor of keeping dangerous weapons out of the hands of fools. Let’s start with typewriters.” - Frank Lloyd Wright
"Both oligarch and tyrant mistrust the people, and therefore deprive them of arms" - Aristotle
"Both oligarch and tyrant mistrust the people, and therefore deprive them of arms" - Aristotle
Re: Wife Has Come Around
So, instead of "She drank the KoolAid ... she ate the cornbread, blackeyed peas and hominy grits...
and thinkin' cleared up.

We just need to ship cornbread up North and convince them to taste it
and thinkin' cleared up.

We just need to ship cornbread up North and convince them to taste it
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Re: Wife Has Come Around
the poor dear - I was born in Chicago .. but 73 years ago my Mother moved my Sister and me to California (before it became Kalifornia..) - when I got to an age where I knew the "difference" I thanked her every day for doing so - more so when my occupation required that I travel to "those places" periodically (I can't even imagine living in NYC ! (get a rope)) )or anywhere north and east of Amarillo, for that matter)Kythas wrote:..This is someone who is from Chicago and lived several years in New York City before moving to Texas..
and lucky me - I'm married to an ultra conservitive Tejas gal
Re: Wife Has Come Around
I think she's been force-fed the kool-aid her entire life by schools. Her parents are conservative, but she and her brother are not. This scenario is repeated over and over with her friends - their parents are conservative but they are uniformly not.RPB wrote:So, instead of "She drank the KoolAid ... she ate the cornbread, blackeyed peas and hominy grits...
and thinkin' cleared up.
We just need to ship cornbread up North and convince them to taste it
Oh, did I mention she went to college in Boston?
So her educational environments were: Chicago - Boston - NYC.
She is now in Texas and I'm slowly but steadily doing my best to deprogram her.

“I’m all in favor of keeping dangerous weapons out of the hands of fools. Let’s start with typewriters.” - Frank Lloyd Wright
"Both oligarch and tyrant mistrust the people, and therefore deprive them of arms" - Aristotle
"Both oligarch and tyrant mistrust the people, and therefore deprive them of arms" - Aristotle
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Re: Wife Has Come Around
She is now in Texas and I'm slowly but steadily doing my best to deprogram her.
She'll thank you one day.....

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Re: Wife Has Come Around
Great news!
Now, see if she'll share her new perspective with her friends...
Now, see if she'll share her new perspective with her friends...
I'll quit carrying a gun when they make murder and armed robbery illegal
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Re: Wife Has Come Around
68blackbird wrote:She is now in Texas and I'm slowly but steadily doing my best to deprogram her.
She'll thank you one day.....
I'll thank you today! One down........
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Re: Wife Has Come Around
I knew there was a reason I married a good ol' southern girl. But then again, she's from the southern end of South America - way further south than I ever expected!
And she's the one who first signed us up for the CHL class!
And she's the one who first signed us up for the CHL class!

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Re: Wife Has Come Around
LOL!!!!RPB wrote:So, instead of "She drank the KoolAid ... she ate the cornbread, blackeyed peas and hominy grits...
and thinkin' cleared up.
We just need to ship cornbread up North and convince them to taste it
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Great news! These rights are not conservative only rights and we should welcome all. It is also our responsibility to guide the converts and continue to patiently educate them on the bigger picture of "why" as far as rights and that any further restrictions on our rights are not "reasonable" by freedoms standards.
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Re: Wife Has Come Around
Don't forget the sweet tea!RPB wrote:So, instead of "She drank the KoolAid ... she ate the cornbread, blackeyed peas and hominy grits...
and thinkin' cleared up.
We just need to ship cornbread up North and convince them to taste it
“I’m all in favor of keeping dangerous weapons out of the hands of fools. Let’s start with typewriters.” - Frank Lloyd Wright
"Both oligarch and tyrant mistrust the people, and therefore deprive them of arms" - Aristotle
"Both oligarch and tyrant mistrust the people, and therefore deprive them of arms" - Aristotle