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I have found in my discussions with liberal antis that they have decided reality is whatever they think it is. It is truly a gut level emotional mindset that refuses to give credence to any fact that does not support that feeling. What's interesting is every one believes him/herself to be very open minded and yet in this regard isn't at all. As someone stated, they become very flustered when you present irrefutable facts.

On the other hand, lots of people come across as being anti gun when they simply don't know very much about them and little or nothing about concealed carry. They are stuck on the anti's "guns kill people" message. They have never had cause to think any of that through. I hold my hand up as someone who was once in that same place. It sounds like the OP encountered one of these and did a great job of opening her eyes to thinking further than she had before. Rather than treat her negatively and get into an argument, he simply talked logically to her. Hopefully, she will take and read Dr. Lot's book.
Thanks to the OP for taking the time to try to help one more person see the light! :patriot: :txflag: :thewave
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I just want to point out by saying all liberals are the same and are all anti is stereotyping and is not necessarily keeping an open mind either. I am not defending the liberal point of view and personally I fall into the informed middle of the road "sort of" in my politics. In any case to the OP I think you have done the cause a service because with today's youth there are so many that are just not informed at all. Personally I have met so many young men and women starting out in college that couldn't even tell you what the 2nd Amendment is even about, it's sad to say the least.
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xdfanatic wrote:I just want to point out by saying all liberals are the same and are all anti is stereotyping and is not necessarily keeping an open mind either.
Understood. I would offer two additional thoughts.

1. I have yet to find a person who was a self proclaimed strong Liberal who wasn't also an anti
2. Numerous posters on this thread have a surprisingly consistent view of the different Liberals with whom they've had discussions.

As a gun advocate and an RVer, I'm often the target of Liberal ire. I've worked in Canada and there are pockets of strong Liberal thinking there that often have sought me out. As soon as they learned that I'm from Texas, the subject of guns was broached. Initially, I was offended at some of the attacks but now I just see it as an opportunity for a sporting exchange. I never make statements but have learned to turn everything that I want to express into a question. I then just let them talk (but not filibuster). I find it amusing how quickly they can tie themselves up in mental knots and resort to "feeling". The next question is "why are your feelings better than mine?"

There are some people out there who will spout some of the normal Liberal slogans. I use questions to probe whether or not they actually have thought about what they are saying or are simply repeating what they have heard or been taught. Many schools force feed Liberal thinking into their students and, given the chance, those who respond to logic and reason will.
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chasfm11 wrote:
xdfanatic wrote:I just want to point out by saying all liberals are the same and are all anti is stereotyping and is not necessarily keeping an open mind either.
Understood. I would offer two additional thoughts.

1. I have yet to find a person who was a self proclaimed strong Liberal who wasn't also an anti
One of my friends is both liberal and pro-gun. To be fair, though, he's not openly liberal.
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Dave2 wrote:
chasfm11 wrote:
xdfanatic wrote:I just want to point out by saying all liberals are the same and are all anti is stereotyping and is not necessarily keeping an open mind either.
Understood. I would offer two additional thoughts.

1. I have yet to find a person who was a self proclaimed strong Liberal who wasn't also an anti
One of my friends is both liberal and pro-gun. To be fair, though, he's not openly liberal.
I don't think any large group contains people who are 100% in agreement with all core beliefs, but I consider anti-gun sentiments, anti-self-defense sentiments, and sympathy for criminals, to inform core liberal beliefs. I'm not saying you have to be anti-gun to be a liberal but I am saying most liberals are anti-gun. It follows from the fundamentals of their ideology just as being pro-gun follows from a more conservative or libertarian ideology. I don't know your friend or how you define liberal, but I suspect your friend may be more libertarian than liberal. And btw, I'm using the term "liberal" in the modern sense, not in the classical sense in which those once considered liberal would be considered something more like a libertarian today.

I think of these terms less as left-right than a continuum from collectivist to individualist, where there are probably no pure collectivists or pure individualists. Being anti-gun is integral to collectivism.
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Very interesting discussion.

As a Brit who went from neutral/slightly-anti to very strongly pro-armed-self-defense after I had moved to the US and investigated the various issues of firearms and their use - ethically, legally and mechanically - I would say that (in addition to the very well written comments thus far regarding the liberal-leaning attitudes to firearms and self-defense) there is also ALOT of misunderstanding outside of the gun-owning community regarding the actual firearm 'machine' itself.

People that are wholly unfamiliar with firearms have most (if not all) of their foundation of beliefs about firearms gleaned from TV and movies; guns are sensitive, complex devices full of explosives that go off at any time (and always when knocked/dropped), are invariably all full-auto, are so inaccurate/difficult to control that they shoot uncontrollably like an unheld garden hose, and that live rounds are as delicate as nitroglycerine and explode when tapped or warmed in the sun. Firearms take a massive amount of training to use, and a person is completely incapable if they are not ex-SWAT or SEAL with 25 years of service. The thing here is that if these things were true (and in my experience, alot of people from outside the US think they are true), then you could see why someone would be so adverse to the idea of an armed citizen.

My family were incredulous that I would carry a firearm at all, much less with a magazine inserted and then - good grief you maniac - a round chambered ('...it's like carrying around a sweating stick of dynamite in your back pocket...') in an IWB ('...that's going to make a mess of your leg when it goes off...') in a gun with no manual safety ('...what stops it from going off when you accidentally pull the trigger ?...'). Once I had actually set them straight on these kinds of misconceptions such that they understood a little more about the actual mechanics of the firearm, it was then quite an easy discussion regarding the benefits of armed self-defense.

So that is certainally something I bear in mind when talking with antis - it is quite likely that they have not the slightest notion of the mechanics of the firearm and if they really think it is like carrying around a sweating stick of dynamite, or a hand grenade waiting to explode, it's difficult to actually get to a point when the logic of armed self defense can be discussed...

...just my 2 pence worth :-)
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If we are going to require a mental evaluation before "allowing" people to exercise their constitutionally guaranteed 2nd ammendment rights, then we should also require a mental evaluation before exercising 1st ammendment rights. After all, words can be much more deadly than weapons in the hands of a true psychopath (Manson comes to mind here).

I'm thinking a simple test of ones ability to use logic before they have a "permit" to express their opinion in public might be a useful thing. If nothing else, it would make the world a much quieter place.
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Skydivesnake wrote:Very interesting discussion.

As a Brit who went from neutral/slightly-anti to very strongly pro-armed-self-defense after I had moved to the US and investigated the various issues of firearms and their use - ethically, legally and mechanically - I would say that (in addition to the very well written comments thus far regarding the liberal-leaning attitudes to firearms and self-defense) there is also ALOT of misunderstanding outside of the gun-owning community regarding the actual firearm 'machine' itself.

People that are wholly unfamiliar with firearms have most (if not all) of their foundation of beliefs about firearms gleaned from TV and movies; guns are sensitive, complex devices full of explosives that go off at any time (and always when knocked/dropped), are invariably all full-auto, are so inaccurate/difficult to control that they shoot uncontrollably like an unheld garden hose, and that live rounds are as delicate as nitroglycerine and explode when tapped or warmed in the sun. Firearms take a massive amount of training to use, and a person is completely incapable if they are not ex-SWAT or SEAL with 25 years of service. The thing here is that if these things were true (and in my experience, alot of people from outside the US think they are true), then you could see why someone would be so adverse to the idea of an armed citizen.

My family were incredulous that I would carry a firearm at all, much less with a magazine inserted and then - good grief you maniac - a round chambered ('...it's like carrying around a sweating stick of dynamite in your back pocket...') in an IWB ('...that's going to make a mess of your leg when it goes off...') in a gun with no manual safety ('...what stops it from going off when you accidentally pull the trigger ?...'). Once I had actually set them straight on these kinds of misconceptions such that they understood a little more about the actual mechanics of the firearm, it was then quite an easy discussion regarding the benefits of armed self-defense.

So that is certainally something I bear in mind when talking with antis - it is quite likely that they have not the slightest notion of the mechanics of the firearm and if they really think it is like carrying around a sweating stick of dynamite, or a hand grenade waiting to explode, it's difficult to actually get to a point when the logic of armed self defense can be discussed...

...just my 2 pence worth :-)

How long have you been in the US? My impression of the UK is that the culture has become not just anti-gun, but anti-self-defense --to the point of empowering and emboldening all manner of criminal and thuggish behavior. Anthony Burgess was already writing about this attitude decades ago and I see it expressed in recent British television programs, like Peep Show (which also expresses that ignorance and mistrust of guns, and is unable to make the connection between one thing and the other).
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Katygunnut wrote:If we are going to require a mental evaluation before "allowing" people to exercise their constitutionally guaranteed 2nd ammendment rights, then we should also require a mental evaluation before exercising 1st ammendment rights.
And most certainly, before allowing people to vote.
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Katygunnut wrote:If we are going to require a mental evaluation before "allowing" people to exercise their constitutionally guaranteed 2nd ammendment rights, then we should also require a mental evaluation before exercising 1st ammendment rights. After all, words can be much more deadly than weapons in the hands of a true psychopath (Manson comes to mind here).
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Law abiding citizens carrying guns is an open admission that criminals walk among us.

This fact scares the wheaties of out of the antis and this stress is just overwhelming for them.

Pretending this isn't so is best accomplished by not carrying and whistling in the dark...
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I don't want to get off-topic for long, but:

To VMI77: I like your postings and your writing style ... :cheers2:

... but your avatar creeps me out - just a little!!! :mrgreen:

What is that image from? Also, has anyone noticed that those are two (2) right hands?
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VMI77 wrote:
Skydivesnake wrote:Very interesting discussion.

As a Brit who went from neutral/slightly-anti to very strongly pro-armed-self-defense after I had moved to the US and investigated the various issues of firearms and their use - ethically, legally and mechanically - I would say that (in addition to the very well written comments thus far regarding the liberal-leaning attitudes to firearms and self-defense) there is also ALOT of misunderstanding outside of the gun-owning community regarding the actual firearm 'machine' itself.

People that are wholly unfamiliar with firearms have most (if not all) of their foundation of beliefs about firearms gleaned from TV and movies; guns are sensitive, complex devices full of explosives that go off at any time (and always when knocked/dropped), are invariably all full-auto, are so inaccurate/difficult to control that they shoot uncontrollably like an unheld garden hose, and that live rounds are as delicate as nitroglycerine and explode when tapped or warmed in the sun. Firearms take a massive amount of training to use, and a person is completely incapable if they are not ex-SWAT or SEAL with 25 years of service. The thing here is that if these things were true (and in my experience, alot of people from outside the US think they are true), then you could see why someone would be so adverse to the idea of an armed citizen.

My family were incredulous that I would carry a firearm at all, much less with a magazine inserted and then - good grief you maniac - a round chambered ('...it's like carrying around a sweating stick of dynamite in your back pocket...') in an IWB ('...that's going to make a mess of your leg when it goes off...') in a gun with no manual safety ('...what stops it from going off when you accidentally pull the trigger ?...'). Once I had actually set them straight on these kinds of misconceptions such that they understood a little more about the actual mechanics of the firearm, it was then quite an easy discussion regarding the benefits of armed self-defense.

So that is certainally something I bear in mind when talking with antis - it is quite likely that they have not the slightest notion of the mechanics of the firearm and if they really think it is like carrying around a sweating stick of dynamite, or a hand grenade waiting to explode, it's difficult to actually get to a point when the logic of armed self defense can be discussed...

...just my 2 pence worth :-)

How long have you been in the US? My impression of the UK is that the culture has become not just anti-gun, but anti-self-defense --to the point of empowering and emboldening all manner of criminal and thuggish behavior. Anthony Burgess was already writing about this attitude decades ago and I see it expressed in recent British television programs, like Peep Show (which also expresses that ignorance and mistrust of guns, and is unable to make the connection between one thing and the other).
I've been here several joyful years :patriot:

You are correct regarding the anti-self-defense attitude; it's state-mandated pacifism encouraged through ludicrous zero-tolerance policies where homeowners are just as likely prosecuted for physically defending themselves, than the intruder is for breaking in, and old ladies carrying knitting needles just as likely to be busted for 'carrying an offensive weapon' as a gangbanger with a flick-knife.

An example is this ex-soldier who found an abandoned firearm, turned it in at the local police station - and was promptly arrested and prosecuted for gun possession;

http://www.thisissurreytoday.co.uk/news ... ticle.html

(The Judge's comment "The intention of anybody possessing a firearm is irrelevant" pretty much sums up the lack of significance that is placed on actual 'intent' in all areas of English law, these days)

This general fear of prosecution and creeping pacifism has soaked into the UK culture to such an extent that there seems to genuinely be no expectation that someone would attempt to defend themselves or others (even the family). And those that do are generally derided as either foolhardy or having a barely-suppressed, easily triggered, proclivity towards violence themselves.

...which brings me to a final point; those that have absolutely no urge to defend themselves or their loved ones, really cannot acknowledge - at all - that there may be others that do. So instead of being a law-abiding realist who has merely chosen the best tool for the job, you're actually a blood-thirsty gun owner just looking for the opportunity to shoot someone and hide behind the law to 'get away with it'.
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It is terrifying that this mindset is creeping into our own culture--the idea self defense is just as wrong as criminal aggression. If you think about it, this is EXACTLY what our public schools are teaching our children right now. If two kids get into a fight, both are disciplined. They don't take the time to investigate who started it. The mere fact the one attacked fought back is enough to get him/her in trouble too. When I was in first grade, I once cleaned the plow of a bully who physically attacked a defenseless little girl right in front of me. The principal interviewed the witnesses, talked to both of us and then proceeded to give the bully three licks :smilelol5: . I got not so much as a stern talking to. He had it coming to him both ways. If the same thing happened today, I would be punished the same as him. Interesting thing is I went to school with that kid for 8 more years and he never caused any more trouble. Today's zero tolerance policies don't seem to have that effect.

You nailed it when you described the way lack of understanding of firearms themselves keeps people in a mindset you must be crazy or dangerous to want to carry one around. I found learning about them made a huge difference to me in the beginning.

Glad you made it out of the UK to come live where defending yourself has not completely become illegal (except in the well known places ).
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